Having a Vibrator and Involving Your Partner

Having a Vibrator and Involving Your Partner

If you are currently in a relationship and thinking about buying a sex toy, its worth thinking about how your partner will feel about it. Some partners might feel that they are unable to satisfy you, which is why you have brought one.

If you’re thinking of buying some form of sex toy, why not sit down with your partner and discuss it with them. Explain that it’s not because you don’t feel satisfied but that you want to try and other things. 

Don’t buy one alone

Simply PleasureUsing a vibrator or dildo does not have to be someone that you do alone; your partner can easily get involved and use it during foreplay. Why not look into buying one together; this will help make your partner feel more involved.

Your partner may need reassurance when using it

It’s a very common that your partner might not know if they are using the sex toy correctly or if you are even enjoying it. Whether you are using it on yourself or your partner is using it on you, make them aware that they are doing it properly and that you are enjoying it.

It would also be worth showing your partner how to use it or what vibration setting you prefer, before letting them try.

Don’t use it as a replacement

Do not use the vibrator every time you have sexual intercourse, even though it might be great fun. Using it as a replacement to sexual interaction could put a strain on the relationship and result in arguments or misunderstandings.

It would be a better idea to try it on special occasions, making your sexual intercourse even more intense.

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